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Life Story by SmittenFirefly Life Story by SmittenFirefly
Also known as, "I'm so sure it's just a phase."

Basically, an idea I've had for a while now... been putting it off because, at the time, I still hadn't come to terms with being genderqueer, and didn't want to do anything this... idk, public. But now I'm at peace with it all, I can laugh as I think back, and I think this is a pretty accurate description of my own coming-out process.

The pink thing can be whatever you imagine... an inner voice, destiny... my gay fairy godmother... all that matters is that it was always there. At first, I didn't notice (but it was still there), then, I didn't believe (because I just assumed I was straight), then... well, honestly, I overplayed the denial phase here... and then I started to realize I was, and then I was happy to realize, because finally things made sense and I felt free.

...Happy holidays, everyone!
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TheThousandthSon Featured By Owner Aug 25, 2014  New member
I can relate (minus the Gender-Queer part), though I did go through a stage that I call "Bi Bargaining" as a way to deny that I am Truly Gay.

I Totally believe that Bisexuality (as well as Poly & Pansexuality) is a Real thing but, FOR ME, it was simply a Phase of Denial/Acceptance.

the feeling of Relief was and still is immense. 
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CaptainAwesometastic Featured By Owner Jun 1, 2014  Hobbyist
MY LIFE STORY TOO
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WaBeSam Featured By Owner Jan 27, 2014
you're really brave!
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FeyPandora Featured By Owner Aug 7, 2013  Hobbyist
My life :D
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Asrath Featured By Owner Jul 14, 2013  Student General Artist
Exactly.
Brain; shut up, okayyy!? >:I
Shut up or DECIDE!
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Zuckerwattebaum Featured By Owner Jun 21, 2013
Oh yes. Same here. :-) Bi ...than genderqueer...öhm...now Girlfag. (gay man trapped in a womans body)*yeah*
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Creative-Punk Featured By Owner Jun 16, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
XD

I felt like this, even the "not this again" when your angel, fairy? whatever, said "psst, you are genderqueer"! lol!

My mom thinks I am transgendered because I am gender-non-conforming and she doesn't quiet understand. I like to drag. -___-
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ExSakura Featured By Owner Jun 6, 2013  Student General Artist
Hahahaha yes.
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ArtificialSkies Featured By Owner May 28, 2013
My life story XD
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Ferkru Featured By Owner May 17, 2013  Student General Artist
happened to me with being bigender...but...im's still kinda in the 17th panel
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